NileshBabu

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Be lucky - it's an easy skill to learn

In the wake of these studies, I think there are three easy techniques that can help to maximise good fortune:

  • Unlucky people often fail to follow their intuition when making a choice, whereas lucky people tend to respect hunches. Lucky people are interested in how they both think and feel about the various options, rather than simply looking at the rational side of the situation. I think this helps them because gut feelings act as an alarm bell - a reason to consider a decision carefully.
  • Unlucky people tend to be creatures of routine. They tend to take the same route to and from work and talk to the same types of people at parties. In contrast, many lucky people try to introduce variety into their lives. For example, one person described how he thought of a colour before arriving at a party and then introduced himself to people wearing that colour. This kind of behaviour boosts the likelihood of chance opportunities by introducing variety.
  • Lucky people tend to see the positive side of their ill fortune. They imagine how things could have been worse. In one interview, a lucky volunteer arrived with his leg in a plaster cast and described how he had fallen down a flight of stairs. I asked him whether he still felt lucky and he cheerfully explained that he felt luckier than before. As he pointed out, he could have broken his neck.

By Richard Wiseman who is a psychologist at the University of Hertfordshire and author of the The Luck Factor (Century) book

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Gender differences

  1. Women play the role of "office mother" offering to lend a sympathetic ear.
  2. Men play devil's advocate and act in a challenging way.
  3. Women make the effort to laugh at jokes and make colleagues feel good about themselves.
  4. Men are more likely to be the joke teller.
  5. Women act in a passive manner, letting colleagues talk over them and interrupt.
  6. Men are more likely to do the interrupting.

as per: Why men write short email and women write emotional messages.

 

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