NileshBabu

Visually delight stuff & some research in between

Why do men become gynaecologists?

In the days when all doctors were men, all gynaecologists obviously were too. A few may have chosen the specialty for dubious motives but, having done a few gynaecology outpatient sessions myself, there's nothing remotely titillating about it. Most male gynaecologists just have a fascination for the subject.

This enthusiasm was first documented by J Marion Sims, a bloke who practised surgery in Alabama in the 19th century and is credited as the founder of modern gynaecology. Of one patient with a fistula (an abnormal connection between vagina and bladder) he wrote: "Introducing the bent handle of a spoon I saw everything as no man had ever seen before. The fistula was as plain as the nose on a man's face." You might query his note-taking but Sims enjoyed his work. He may have liked looking, but with detached objectivity not lust. He invented a speculum, a catheter, several new surgical techniques and kept a straight face when a patient "was embarrassed by an explosive sound of air". A true professional.

There are now far more women in medicine and gynaecology, and you've got a good chance of being treated by a female doctor – more so if you ask. But the sex of a doctor is far less important than the manner.

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Gender differences

  1. Women play the role of "office mother" offering to lend a sympathetic ear.
  2. Men play devil's advocate and act in a challenging way.
  3. Women make the effort to laugh at jokes and make colleagues feel good about themselves.
  4. Men are more likely to be the joke teller.
  5. Women act in a passive manner, letting colleagues talk over them and interrupt.
  6. Men are more likely to do the interrupting.

as per: Why men write short email and women write emotional messages.

 

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Women's genital self-esteem affects sex, health

Women who feel negatively about female genitalia find it harder to have an orgasm and are less likely to get regular gynecological exams, says a new study from Indiana University.

They are also often more critical of their own genitals – and other women's – than men are, according to the study, published in the current issue of the International Journal of Sexual Health.

Men were generally more positive than women, a point that didn't surprise the author. “Men are more relaxed and open and accepting of women's genitals. Women are assuming the worst, and they're anxious, and men are just happy to be invited to the party.”

This is because “women are just a lot more critical of all of their body parts,” she said.

Reminds me of Robert De Niro quote: "According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful."

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Shyness Leads to Unsafe Sex

An online survey conducted by pharmaceutical company Schering-Plough and an internet dating site asked 1000 people about sex and contraception. The results revealed that approximately 63 per cent of men and 52 per cent of women do not discuss the use of contraception prior to having sex with a new partner for the first time. 

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